Sex-Positive/Kink Aligned

Sex-Positive/Kink Aligned

“Treat cultural messages about sex and your body like a salad bar. Take only the things that appeal to you and ignore the rest. We’ll all end up with a different collection of stuff on our plates, but that’s how it’s supposed to work. It goes wrong only when you try to apply what you picked as right for your sexuality to someone else’s sexuality.”
― Emily Nagoski, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life 

  • Do you feel like you don’t have anyone to talk to, worried about judgement from others?
  • Do you feel secure in who you are, what you like, and know that those things are okay?
  • Are you questioning/exploring the things you are thinking about and want an impartial, non-judgmental person to walk this path along side you?

Yay!  I’m so excited that you found me!  First, let me say, there is nothing wrong with you and you are not doing it or anything wrong. It is okay to want something different from the traditional/vanilla sexual behaviors and you get to choose what is right for you. I’m here to listen to you, with an open mind in a space where you can feel free to share and know that you will be heard in a non-judgmental/non-biased way.  I won’t yuck your yum or bring any of my own thoughts into the room, but instead will walk along side you as you navigate what your yum is and comfort in exploring that.  I will be a person to talk to, but will also guide you in getting more comfortable with finding a supportive community to connect with.

Why choose me?

  • I won’t yuck your yum- this means, whatever you bring into the room will be approached with openness.  I’m not going to tell you it is wrong but instead will help you come to acceptance (if you haven’t already) with who you are and what you like and choose for you.
  • I won’t try to explore what happened in your childhood that makes you this way or try to find a reason for why you like what you like (we call this patholigizing).  There doesn’t have to be a reason other than: I like it, it makes me feel…, etc.
  • I will support you in your journey of exploring, accepting, and connecting with others like yourself.

Let’s get started on building the life you want!

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