Couples Dealing with Infidelity

Couples Dealing with Infidelity

  • Are you feeling lost, confused, not sure what your next step is?
  • Do you want to try to work on this with your partner?
  • Do you want help healing from the pain this is causing you?

THIS IS SO HARD- BUT I’VE GOT YOU. First, I want you to know that it isn’t your fault, you didn’t cause this. But with that being said, I also want you to know that sometimes, even happy people cheat. This isn’t a flaw with you or your partner. My belief is that there is something that caused it and if we can figure that out and address that instead of placing blame and living with guilt- that this might be a way to prevent it from occurring again. I believe that if your partner is coming in and working on this with you- they are choosing you. So coming in with a willingness to work on this on both sides will make this be something that you will hopefully be able to overcome, together.

So what will we be working on/and what are we not going to do?

  • Processing through each partners feelings about the affair, the hurt- because even if you don’t want to believe it, the one that cheated is hurting too, and living with guilt and shame.
  • Listen to each partner and why they think this happened. This is not a blaming session. This is listening and hearing one another, your needs/wants, and even exploring your past to explain where this may have come from.
  • Come up with a plan, a way to help prevent this from happening in the future.
  • We will not explore exact details of the affair, but questions will be able to be asked and answered.  I will guide you in the questions that may need to be avoided to reduce continued hurt.
  • No blame and guilt will be placed on either partner.
  • There needs to be a willingness to work on this- because if you are on your way out the door, this is a waste of everyone’s time and money.

Let’s get started on healing the pain of the past and moving forward into a new future!

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